If you go on youtube and, search two videos: one that describes the traits of a narcissist and the other teaching you how to have more confidence, you are most likely to find similar information connecting them both. Yes, being narcissistic is a bad thing (to me) but, if you suffer from low self esteem and, feel like things will never go your way, you can learn how to live a full filling life by studying the Narcissist.
One of the first complaints people have about a narcissist is that they're too"cocky" or confident. So, if you're somewhat timid and, don't feel good about your appearance or who you are, do as a narcissist and Put yourself first. You can build a refreshing sense of confidence once you begin to tell yourself "I am worthy and I deserve the best". With self loving affirmations, come actions of self love, letting your self love shine from within. So, as long as you don't abuse this new found love, more friends and, opportunities will come your way.
Another quality of a narcissist to practice is to selfishness. This is different from putting yourself first since self care is an important key to a great life. Caring about what is yours - and what is yours ONLY - eliminates the burden of having to deal with everyone else's drama. Sometimes we put our own essential needs behind those belonging to the one's we love. Once you stop worrying about what they need, the more your life goals blossom.
This third characteristic I think you might want to adopt is aggressiveness. For some, the simple act of standing up for oneself is too much to handle. But, if you don't care for yourself, who will? Being kind never got our strongest rulers anywhere. Being stern and, wise will absolutely take you where you want to be. Like a narcissist, do not worry about how someone will feel, instead do what is best for your situation. Also, remember to use aggression on an "as needed" basis.
A last narcissistic feature we can all approve of is being financially successful. Now, we know not every narcissist has a lot of money but, most well known narcissists - have a lot of money. Because there is no emotion involved with the dollar, the narcissist knows it is all an emotionless game. So, they work hard and, play in their accomplishments. And, - you should too. If you always wished of making thousands or millions of dollars, practice some narcissistic financial moves and, see how far it gets you.
Although a narcissistic personality is not the most desirable personality to come in contact with, it does come with it's own set of positive attributes. Many of them are leaders, obtain high positions in companies, and find success in many career fields. If you balance these traits with your own, it can help you or anyone battling with depression, low self esteem, anxiety, and, overthinking, to become more self assured and confident in life.
References:
Self
One of the first complaints people have about a narcissist is that they're too"cocky" or confident. So, if you're somewhat timid and, don't feel good about your appearance or who you are, do as a narcissist and Put yourself first. You can build a refreshing sense of confidence once you begin to tell yourself "I am worthy and I deserve the best". With self loving affirmations, come actions of self love, letting your self love shine from within. So, as long as you don't abuse this new found love, more friends and, opportunities will come your way.
Another quality of a narcissist to practice is to selfishness. This is different from putting yourself first since self care is an important key to a great life. Caring about what is yours - and what is yours ONLY - eliminates the burden of having to deal with everyone else's drama. Sometimes we put our own essential needs behind those belonging to the one's we love. Once you stop worrying about what they need, the more your life goals blossom.
This third characteristic I think you might want to adopt is aggressiveness. For some, the simple act of standing up for oneself is too much to handle. But, if you don't care for yourself, who will? Being kind never got our strongest rulers anywhere. Being stern and, wise will absolutely take you where you want to be. Like a narcissist, do not worry about how someone will feel, instead do what is best for your situation. Also, remember to use aggression on an "as needed" basis.
A last narcissistic feature we can all approve of is being financially successful. Now, we know not every narcissist has a lot of money but, most well known narcissists - have a lot of money. Because there is no emotion involved with the dollar, the narcissist knows it is all an emotionless game. So, they work hard and, play in their accomplishments. And, - you should too. If you always wished of making thousands or millions of dollars, practice some narcissistic financial moves and, see how far it gets you.
Although a narcissistic personality is not the most desirable personality to come in contact with, it does come with it's own set of positive attributes. Many of them are leaders, obtain high positions in companies, and find success in many career fields. If you balance these traits with your own, it can help you or anyone battling with depression, low self esteem, anxiety, and, overthinking, to become more self assured and confident in life.
References:
Self
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